Wednesday, March 15, 2006

Belated Sunday Post


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This is a belated Sunday-type post. I should have written after church on Sunday, but was weary and had stupidly decided that since not very many of you comment on my Sunday posts that you must not be interested in them. But I think this is foolish of me, because this is my blog and a record of my thoughts so whether you comment or not (though I love it and prefer that you do) I want to accurately document my life and thoughts.

So here goes...
Our Sacrament Meeting on Sunday March 12, 2006 was so fantastic. The Young Women's Presidency spoke and reduced me to a blubbering mess. I had packed a mini package of tissues in my bag that day (only to find I had 3 others in there), and it was a good thing because I used a ton of tissues during that meeting. Here are the highlights from my 5 pages of notes.
  • We have the responsibility to raise our children in righteousness, and will be held accountable for what we've taught them.
  • Dedicated, selfless parents teach their children so well that when temptation comes it rolls right off their children because they know the truth. (A daunting statement for sure.)
  • It's easier to invest in our children while they're young so that they have a firm foundation when they're teenagers.
  • Teach your children accountability and respect. The Lord does not jump in and solve our problems, He lets us struggle and learn for ourselves. We should follow His example of parenting with our own children.
  • If you don't know where you want to go it doesn't matter which path you take.
  • Friends can an amazing force for good in each others' lives. Teach your children to choose friends wisely. (I think this is true for us as grown-ups well. Do our friends lift us up or drag us down?)
  • Indulge in goodness. Take advantage of all the good opportunities that will help keep you on the right path. (I love the use of the word indulge in this context.)
  • Teach your kids to "Be that good kid" to be the one that stands up for what they believe, to be a good influence on their friends, to not just be one of the crowd.
  • Teach your kids that it is up to them to put themselves in good places--they will be held accountable for their choices (after the age of 8).
  • Once you realize your infinite worth as a child of God, then nothing will hold you back from fulfilling your goals and your purpose in life.
  • Heavenly Father's love for us is intense and powerful. We can experience a taste of His love for us as we feel love for our own children and families. (So just try imagine how much greater His love really is.)
  • The power of example is an awesome tool, be mindful of what your example is saying.
  • You are the only person who can limit what you become.

8 comments:

Elizabeth said...

For the record, even though I rarely comment, I blove your Sunday posts. There are some pretty incredible thoughts today. I also love the use of the word indulge in that context. Thank you for posting such words of wisdom!

Anonymous said...

I enjoy reading all your posts, and I like to hear your insight especially on the Sunday ones, even though I don't really comment either. I will try to fix that. All your "notes" were great. Thanks for sharing.

michelle said...

Awesome Sunday report, as usual. After reading your notes from church, I always want to start going to your ward! Inspiring and overwhelming (the way I always feel when people talk about parenting).

everything pink! said...

i am so glad you put that up today and not sunday. because i needed to read it fresh today. it has been a rough day and i am glad i took the minute right now to read it. i am going to link it to my blog becasue it is great.
thanks for taking notes in church until i can start doing that in about 4 years.

Amy said...

OK, so who's going to teach me how to do this? ;) I love the last item--You are the only person who can limit what you become. That's so true. It reminds me of my other favorite truism, nobody can make you happy but yourself. We have so much personal accountability for who we are, what we feel, and what we do. I think of myself as a pessimisitc person (and my family would mostly agree). Yesterday Jeremy and I were talking about some home improvements we want to do and all I could do was think up reasons why we couldn't do them. I limit myself all the time. I need to think about this one and work hard to stop the habit.

Anonymous said...

Jill, I love your blog, and especially love what you write on Sundays. I teach RS on the 4th Sundays, and will check some of your journal entries for some added insites. You are so well read and spiritually in tune. You are a great example to the senior crowd as well as to your younger peer group. Keep it up Girl!

jt said...

Jill I love your 'Sunday' posts, but sometimes don't comment just out of feeling overwhelmed or speachless. Seriously. I love them, and this one especially. Your ward does sound pretty great!

Amie said...

Thanks for the thoughts...I always enjoy reading your Sunday posts, I love anything to do with children and parenting!