Wednesday, March 05, 2008

SPT--Extra, Extra!

"the spt challenge for next week is to photograph something that is extra special about you. it might be a physical feature, a talent, or an unknown secret. this spt is all about you!"


I had a hard time coming up with something to post about for this week's SPT assignment. I could have gone with the fissure on my forehead, my crooked smile, the freckle between my toes, my unfortunate profile, and so on. But I don't really think any of those things are extra special.

The extra special thing that's a big part of me is the blessing of friendship in my life. I talked to my friend Betsy on the phone today (for the first time since August, sheesh) after she had spent an hour looking at my blog. Completely exasperated, she said, "How do you keep up with all those people? Don't you feel overwhelmed? You have to document all your mail?" I told her I don't feel overwhelmed because the blogging community is a good fit for me. I don't read every blog, every day, I just do what I can do.

{Good Mail Express Delivery from Amie today.}

We didn't get to discuss it all for very long, but for me all of these friendships and good mail give me such a boost, so much strength and an outlet for the things I want to share. So though I sometimes feel like I am in a position that invites criticism (and I'm very uncomfortable with that), it's worth it. I am able to get and give what I need, and that's definitely extra special.


{Thoughtful letter and cards from Heather.}


{Thoughtful note from Amanda.)


{Very nice card from Lelly.}


{Operation Cheer (it worked) package from Mique.}

{Easter surprise from Kim Sue.}

How could have chosen anything else?

**Did you do this SPT?
What do you think?**

28 comments:

everything pink! said...

stop. wait i am the first!!

everything pink! said...

i love this.
you picked the perfect thing.
you have so much to so many of us through your blogging.

i have not done this spt - but crazy can't come up with anything -

Laurie said...

Perfect. That is the perfect thing that IS extra special about you!

Anonymous said...

I agree with the posts above -- you picked the perfect extra special thing about you. You're definitely the glue of our little blog world!

jenny said...

I've said it once and I'll say it again. You are the glue to the blogging community. I remember when you first put me on your side bar (and we had never met) Of course those were the days when our sidebars weren't so long. Just look how far we have all come in a short period of time.

Operation Cheer mail was so thoughtful :)

Doodle Bugs said...

I had someone ask me before how I keep up with all my online friends.. it does not even seem like a hard thing to me!

I think you picked a PERFECT spt for you!!

Liz said...

How funny, I have a freckle on one of my baby toes!

I like what you chose though. It is extra special to have such good friendships!

Look at those fun things you got in the mail!!

Unknown said...

i commented to someone else, i know i took the easy way out on this one.

but what i *feel*, what you've been able to *capture*, is that blogging makes me feel extra special. these friendships have pulled me through some rough days. great way to approach this challenge!
how's your groove today?!?

Amanda said...

Oh, this was great for you! funny how you can worry about what you will do and it just works out perfectly! i had a hard time with this one as well. i didn't want to say something negative about myself and couldn't think of something EXTRA special..so I just skipped it. haven't felt too creative lately i suppose!

patsy said...

Yes- So Perfect!!
I did do this & it really was a hard one.
I love that you document your mail. You have a fantastic document of your LIFE! You are the glue of the blogging community!!- you are so great at expressing what so many of us are feeling but just can't say. Thanks Jill for sharing!

Holly (2 Kids and Tired) said...

I think you're very blessed. Friendship is incredibly important.

Lauralee said...

operation cheer is so sweet.. love that!

i have never done an spt.. I should try.. this one would be hard for me.. well... wait I think I just thought of something.maybe I will post it....

melanie said...

Perfect! I love that you chose this. You're great Jill, this is definitely extra special about you!

crystal said...

This IS one of your shining qualities. People LOVE you for it :)

Amie's Good Mail Express instantly made me think of Mr. McPheely (remember, on Mr. Rogers--the mailman?), who'd pop in Mr. Rogers' door and trill, "Speedy Delivery!" Amie brought you a Speedy Delivery.

Becky said...

Yep, Jill--this sums up the amazing, extra-specialness that is you! You are a great friend to so many people--isn't it awesome that as women we don't even have to meet face-to-face to share these friendships? That is a truth that you have taught me--thanks!

Loved the Good Cheer mail :)

michelle said...

This is definitely perfect! Your friendships ARE what is extra-special about you. I love it.

jenn said...

I couldn't come up with anything for this SPT. I love yours though- I have always thought you were an extra special friend and it blows my mind what a genuine friend you can be to anyone!

~Jeri Darling~ said...

The blessings of friendship is a wonderful thing to have. I find it hard to make friends and Im moving next month to a new state. I am wigging out about leaving what few friends I have behind. I envy people who have such long lasting beautiful friendships. Its a true blessing.

Anonymous said...

You do amaze me with your ability to keep so many under your wing- this was a perfect take on the challenge. It is an enviable trait to me as I have the tendency to feel overwhelmed and usually can only maintain a few close friendships.

Kristin said...

Great SPT!! I love that you are The Good Mail Queen. When I first started blogging I loved the concept of good mail but I didn't understand why it was necessary to post the pictures of all of it. I get it now. ;) I just sent out my first batch of official "good mail" yesterday (I have been the lucky recipient of several good mail surprises already)and can I tell you HOW GOOD IT MADE ME FEEL!! You have started something great.

carlo said...

perfect indeed!

lovely goodmail. it is such fun to see the creativity out there...

wende said...

you are right! we are all so blessed through blogging. i can't believe what a difference it has made for me. i'm glad it has for you too! great post.

Sarah said...

This is my first time commenting, but friendship has also been a true blessing in my life. To have such a close connection to others, to learn from them, and to have support is priceless. This was a great choice for your SPT.

Bond Girl 007 said...

kudos to everyone...I am just grateful for your special frienship

Missy said...

Hi, Jill! I'm a newbie. I have enjoyed reading your blog. I have to admit I'm still not really sure what an spt is. Can someone explain it to me? I am excited about making new friends and it is such a relief to me to know that there are other women who struggle with some of the same things I do! I love your blog, thanks.

Mique (as in Mickey) said...

Glad Operation Cheer worked! ;)
I agree with all the other comments- this is a great thing about you. It's amazing how you are the thread that have brought so many people together.

Amanda :-) said...

Yes, you are a gluey kind of person Jill! For me, the gluey bit is that things you say tend to stick in my head - so it's always worth writing it, my dear! I always think of you saying it's worth bringing a wad of cards and stamps and a pen wherever you go, so that you can always squeeze in a bit of Good Mail in time gaps. Isla's getting more independent at morning playgroups, so I'm finding I literally sit there, watching her play and twiddling my thumbs. Then I think, 'Pah! Jill would have a fit. I should be Good Mailing!'

I got your Good Mail today too. THANK YOU! When I opened the card and your little gift fell out, I actually said, 'Oh no!' out loud. But in a good way. You shouldn't have done that. Too kind :-)

amy gretchen said...

I love that you thought of your friends because 1. you are a great friend to many and 2. you have changed many lives because of it. You are the best example of a friend I can think of.