So I set my alarm for 9:00am knowing that I was looking at less than 6 hours of sleep but thinking if I got up then I'd have time to shower, pack lunches, blog and be ready to meet Amie by 10:30am. I woke up at 10:15!! I called Amie to tell her and our conversation went like this.
Amie: "Your kids didn't wake you up?"
Me: "No, they never do."
Amie: "Even though it's almost lunch time?!"
Me: Guttural laugh and confirmation of Amie's 1950's housewife personality.
So Amie ended up driving over here to pick us up instead of us meeting in a parking lot closer to the freeway. I was still in the shower (had to shave my legs) when they got here. I was so flustered. I made a peanut butter sandwich, grabbed some pringles and filled my big mug with ice water so we could go (the kids had already packed their lunches).
I didn't realize until we were there that I had forgotten to back my low lawn chair $#@! (I keep it in the back of my car). Seriously, this was a major problem. I checked the gift shop to see about buying another one, but they had a lame kind that I didn't want to buy. I ended up using one of their white plastic taller chairs, but the back of it kept bending, thus causing me a lot of involuntary ab work. I'm shocked I didn't break the chair completely, but instead spent almost the entire day shifting positions and trying to get comfortable. This did not go well.
Today was the first time that Michelle and her kids were able to be there at the same time we were. I fear I was so grumpy that Michelle and Amie will have no choice but to plan future visits to Seven Peaks without me (I'd be fine with this). I tried to push through my frustration, but really when you consider the 100 degree weather, multitudes of fat white people in bathing suits (me included though covered in board shorts and a t-shirt), weird smells of dampness and mud, whining kids all around us, and hunger from the lame lunch I packed you've got to figure that's more than I can take. I joked with Amie on the way home and said I'm like my autistic brother Andrew and need to go hum by myself in the corner; now that I'm thinking about it that's not really a joke I think he's onto something.
So I need to apologize to Amie and Michelle for my lame behavior and grumpiness, and pledge that I won't stay up past 3:00 the night before getting together ever again!
**Are you able to go with the flow
or do you get grumpy when chaos abounds?**
or do you get grumpy when chaos abounds?**
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You did seem to be in a very bad way today. I would be too, if I'd stayed up til 3:00 a.m.! I went to bed at 1:00 and had to get up at 6:30, but I felt surprisingly good today.
I always have zero expectations when I go to 7Peaks, so that helps. I thought it was more fun in years past when we would actually play in the water with the kids. Also, I tend to enjoy it more now that I only stay for 2 - 2 1/2 hours.
What I'm saying is, you need to find ways to make it bearable for yourself! I don't mind you when you're grumpy -- I just feel badly for you because you're so obviously miserable.
I understand the grumpies. I do that to myself all the time... stay up too late and regret it the next am.
So we are now experiencing 113 temp in the car and 106 in the normal outside. ahhh how are we expected to survive this ridiculous heat?
so gift exchanging is like exercise- it raises your adrenalin, keeping you awake and therefore should be done before 7:00pm to ensure a good night's rest! I wonder if it burns calories too?!!
I am laughing out loud!! First, I must say how wonderful it is that your kids can take care of themselves...I can only dream of the day! How wonderful that you at least got to sleep in so late and din't have to worry about packing their lunches!
I have to say that I tend to get flustered when things don't go according to plan. I like to have everything planned to the minute (and written down on a list of course) so sleeping in and knocking me off schedule would have ruined my whole day too!
I hope the rest of your day went a little better!
Oh, and WHO SHOWERS BEFORE GOING TO A WATER PARK????
Jill, you seriously crack me up. I'm ashamed to say your grumbly posts are some of my favorites. Sorry! And ummmm, I can't BELIEVE your children do not wake you up! I'm envious!
I love your honesty. I'm able to go with the flow when I'm with friends. I try to perk up. EXCEPT lately. I'm in a rut. So I can relate to your grumpiness.
Sorry - I am laughing. I really feel bad you had a bad day and that I usually seem to be part of your bad days.
Becca - hairy people shower before the water park...
That was a very entertaining blog!!! i am still laughing. I am so sorry you had such a bad day!!! hopefully you get your rest tonight. I don't do well without sleep!!!! Anyways that was funny. And my sisters crack me up. I read becca's question and amie's answer and am still laughing..
Wow! I can't believe you were able to sleep that long either. Thats nice the kids left you alone. I would have to say I get pretty grumpy with chaos because I get frazzled with noise and no organization. So I feel your pain.
I need to get to bed speaking of that I still have a ton of stuff to do tomorrow! Hope you have a better day!
I am pretty good with going with the flow. I *like* to have things all go according to plan of course, and it takes some serious effort to go with the flow, but once I just let it go I am better for it. I am sorry your day was so crappy and I hope you are asleep right now or at least reading a good book getting ready to enter dreamland.
So sorry your day was such a bust. I am a major planner and don't do well when things don't go according to my plans. My husband's family is exactly the opposite. They say, "we think we'll come out and visit you, depends on the weather, don't know what we'll do there, we'll just take it as it comes." This drives me NUTS!! And I never go to 7-Peaks, I think I've been there twice since it opened, so you are at least more adventurous than I am. I can't take the heat. Hope tomorrow is better for you. And by the way, thanks for the books, what a nice thing to do. I am so excited to start one tonight!
i can usually hold it together unless it is around family then I get the boombaloos. (a book a will have to post about)
i am always grumpy around jeff and can never seem to fake it.
poor guy.
Oh - I also did say I was surprised the kids didn't wake you because they had a fun day planned... so much for the fun day. Hope you've recovered.
I suppose it all depends on my mood. I get grumpy over certain things/activities and no matter how hard I try to talk myself out of it...it's quite difficult once your there.
You make me laugh. I don't know if I have ever actually seen you in a grumpy mood.
I would say that I can usually smile through anything. I'm usually always tired -- so my body just thinks that it's normal.
I've never owned one of those low lawn chairs. Whenever we go to the water parks, sports games, etc, I always sit in the grass. Maybe I'll have to invest if they are that spectacular.
I'm pretty good about going with the flow unless I've had too little sleep! Then I get pretty grumpy.
Yeah, no hesitation here- I'm a grump if things get chaotic. Not so good since they typically do when you have kids. Hopefully I can mold them to perfectly fit my neurotic, slightly- OCD mind set. ha.
How goes the humming? I like to think that I go with the flow, this is usually better if it's my flow I'm going with, but frstration does ring supreme sometimes.
I think you all are so brave to even be going to SP.
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