Sunday Thoughts

This is taken directly from the October 2008 issue of the Friend Magazine written by Henry B. Eyring.

"It was a summer day. My mother died in the early afternoon. My father, my brother, and I had gone from the hospital to our family home, just the three of us. We fixed ourselves a snack; then we talked with visitors. It grew late, dusk fell, and I remember we still had not turned on the lights.

Dad answered the doorbell. It was Aunt Catherine and Uncle Bill. I could see that Uncle Bill was holding a bottle of cherries. I can still see the deep red, almost purple, cherries and the shiny gold cap on the jar. He said, “You might enjoy these. You probably haven’t had dessert.”

We hadn’t. The three of us sat around the kitchen table, put some cherries in bowls, and ate them as Uncle Bill and Aunt Catherine cleared some dishes.

As nearly as I can tell, the giving and receiving of a great gift always has three parts. Here they are, illustrated by that gift of cherries.

First, I knew that Uncle Bill and Aunt Catherine had felt what I was feeling. They must have felt we’d be too tired to fix much food. They must have felt that a bowl of home-canned cherries would make us feel, for a moment, like a family again. I can’t remember the taste of the cherries, but I remember that someone knew my heart and cared.

Second, I felt that the gift was free. I knew that Uncle Bill and Aunt Catherine had chosen freely to bring a gift. The gift seemed to provide them joy in the giving.

And third, there was sacrifice. I knew that Aunt Catherine had canned those cherries for her family. They must have liked cherries. But she took that possible pleasure from them and gave it to me. That’s sacrifice. But I have realized since then this marvelous fact: it must have seemed to Uncle Bill and Aunt Catherine that they would have more pleasure if I had the cherries than if they did.

Great gift giving involves three things: you feel what the other feels, you give freely, and you count the sacrifice a bargain.

God the Father gave His Son, and Jesus Christ gave us the Atonement—gifts of unfathomable depth and value for us. Jesus gave His gift freely, willingly to us all. One of the sure signs of a person who has accepted the gift of the Savior’s Atonement is a willingness to give."

--I don't really need to add anything to this, but I will anyway. Yesterday was a really hectic, emotional day because we had so much going on with Whitney's baptism. I was really touched by the bits of service that came our way...

--Randy's step mom totally helping out in the kitchen and picking up the substantial amount of slack I'd left.

--Lori coming to my house before the baptism to help out. I immediately had her working on the programs.

--The entire family of Whitney's best friend from school came to her baptism (we'd invited them) and brought very generous gifts (unnecessary, but appreciated) for Whitney, so nice.

--One of my visiting teachers dropping off a plate of cookies to contribute to the post-baptism meal.

--Michelle and Amie bringing their kids to the baptism and then helping get the food out while we were taking photos in the front yard.

--My sisters doing all kinds of work in the kitchen to get the food out for everyone, and then cleaning up later!! (This was a huge gift to me!)

--Amy taking pictures so that I knew I'd have some good ones of this special day. (This photo was taken by Michelle.)

--All of our family spending the afternoon with us to celebrate this special day. Giving up a Saturday is a sacrifice even when it's something you want to do.

--Randy's dad and step mom driving 20 hours from Illinois to be here for Whitney's baptism even though they could only stay for 24 hours before having to drive back (his step mom had a bad sinus infection and wasn't allowed to fly). Wow!

And that was just yesterday!!!!

**Are you humbled when you stop and

think of all the ways other people bless your life?**