
I was relieved that Eva was excited about the day, because I dread her thinking she sees too much of me (and knows that I'm not fun) and will one day tell Michelle that she'd rather stay home. I'm sure Michelle would veto that, but still, it's nice that we're all willing participants at this point.
We took our self-portrait in the car (as is our tradition) and then traveled to my house. We talked about teeth during the car ride, and Eva informed me that her front teeth are neither baby teeth nor big teeth, they're "middle teeth." I found this amusing.

Ashley arrived about 20 minutes after we did, and the girls began playing immediately. I love how they just get busy playing right away. They have that unspoken understanding all kids have that they both know there's playing to be done and that they should get busy with it. There's no awkward moments of reacquainting or questions like, "How have you been?" or "Why haven't you called?" It doesn't matter that they haven't seen or thought of each other for a whole month, there's pretending be done and the clock is ticking!

Yesterday was a glorious, spring day so the girls were able to play outside for awhile. Eva requested the picnic, but then didn't eat anything! Maybe she just liked the idea of it (sort of like I like the idea of exercising regularly). She also had some issues with being outside because that's where bugs live. She had a moment of fear and crying when some ne'r do well bug flew by her. She recovered, but there was a whole lot of going in and out during the 30 minutes of outside time. Ah well.

Play-doh was the real life saver of the day because they were united in their enthusiasm for it and were able to play without too many "sharing" issues. They did have a passionate exchange about who has bigger muscles though. I kid you not, they were getting so mad at each other as they compared their tiny biceps. I told them they were both huge (which is hilarious to think about) but they still debated it. Good grief!
I took some video of them playing just so I could capture the essence of their dynamic, and thought it was funny that the big muscle debate resurfaced during the video.

Eva brought a "Land Before Time" video with her so I made them a little popcorn picnic, complete with M&Ms in the bowl. I had to make sure they had the exact same bowls, with the exact same stuff in them. I don't know why there was such a fear of injustice, but they both got after me with loud vigilance.

I was quite relieved to have them happily set up watching their show and eating their popcorn. When their show was over I noticed there was a bonus feature sing-along so I played it for them. It was a HUGE hit, so the 3 of us sat on the floor singing "The Lone Dinosaur" song over and over and over again (seriously about 15 times). There was a biting incident after all the happiness, but we recovered and moved on. It's impressive that kids forgive each other so easily.

My mom stopped by around 3:30 to bring me a shake (woohoo) and to bring the girls ring pops. It was nice of her to do this, and good to stop and talk for awhile. She ended up taking Ashley with her when she left (since they live together), so then Eva and I were on our own. (Whitney normally comes home and plays with Eva, but she went to a friend's house after school.)

It was only 5:00 so I wanted to stall for time before taking Eva home, so we ended up playing dinosaurs on my bed. It definitely helped that we were playing on my bed because I was able to recline for much of the game, and really if you've got to play you might as well be comfy doing it right?

Our game actually ended up being kind of funny since my dinosaur was named Brenda and Eva's big scary dinosaur was named Linda. Those just aren't dinosaur names are they? I kept cracking myself up as I'd say things like, "Oh no, Dino Linda come out of the hot lava!"
Overall it was a good day. I wasn't exhausted at the end of it, wasn't wishing them good riddance, and didn't have any feelings of annoyance, hooray!
**Do you have problems with time flying?
Did you suffer from feelings of injustice as a kid?
What flavor shake would you have gotten?
Do you forgive easily?**
Did you suffer from feelings of injustice as a kid?
What flavor shake would you have gotten?
Do you forgive easily?**
17 comments:
eva is so adorable! and ashley as well. two very cute kids.
i got a shamrock shake on monday. so trashy, but i could not help myself. if mcdonald's think i should drink a runny, green shake in honor of st. patrick's day, then so be it.
Monthly events always have this effect on me -- I cannot believe it's already time for another, and would swear it just happened. Apparently it happens for Wonderful Wednesday as well as for pack meeting! Although of course, I dread pack meeting and look forward to WW wholeheartedly. Come to think of it, I am usually surprised that it is time to go to church again, so I guess weekly things are the same way for me.
Watching the video would be more amusing to me if it didn't feature my own child. It sounds like a lot of bickering going on, even if it is largely good-natured. How did you manage to not be exhausted and not be wishing them good riddance?? That video combined with the biting incident is really making me question the nature of this gift...
I was cracking up at your description of them getting back together and right down to business. And I wish I forgave as easily as a child.
I got the video to play on my computer! Now that's some funny stuff. Just the thought of your Wonderful Wednesday leaves me exhausted. Makes the 23 first graders I just bid farewell seem like a walk in the park. Plus - I get paid! tee hee hee
Still though, what a couple of cuties!
that video cracks me up. so sweet.
i have similar issues with the passage of time. this afternoon i took a nap and woke up to see this picture of kellen and shane and i from almost 4 years ago and started to cry. where did the time go? it bothers me incredibly and i'm haunted by fears of not using it well.
i had injustice issues as a kid. i also had a younger brother. i tie them together.
cookie dough shake- hands down. bonus points if it was a chocolate cookie dough shake. there's a dearth of shake places here in anchorage. no arctic circle (weird, right?), no charlie's shakes- no frosty top- no place with that taco joint inside. just dq- and they don't really do shakes.
forgiveness depends with me- if you're close and you hurt me badly...it'll take some time. routine things i pass over pretty easily.
i loved what you said about how kids just get right to it in terms of play. i wish adults did that. instead, we get all awkward and weird.
dinos brenda and linda made me laugh out loud. i can just imagine!
Dino Brenda, ha!
You are such a great friend and sister, and I am sure appreciated.
You're so right about the pleasantries that slow us down. Too bad we lose that childlike gift.
"Oh no, Dino Linda come out of the hot lava!" That is funny...and you laying on the bed is funny as well.
However, that SPT of you saluting them is the funniest.
Jill, you rock!
I loved that Eva tried to use reverse psychology with the "big blue knife" when it was small...and wanted the big white knife. They had me laughing....
Some days time stands still...I try to make the best of it. That is usually when I start writing "to-do" lists, I have no idea why.
I do not forgive easy and I really do not like that about myself. I am definitely working on it...I actually for give the wrong people and allow them to walk all over me while I wonder what I did wrong. Does that make sense.
Spending time with Eva looks like a lot of fun.
Oh, I would get a McDonald's Shamrock shake. Do they still make them? Or, a vanilla.
Expressions like "there's pretending to be done and the clock is ticking"..."some n'er do well bug" and "they were united in their enthusiasm" are some of the reasons why I enjoy you so much...
These wonderful Wednesday posts always find me giggling out loud because I live this life each day, since my kids are still little, so I appreciate your honesty and humor...I can relate to everything you're describing!--(I.E. the fear of injustice!)--welcome to my world! It's even Steven for everything around here...
Brian always says that our kids could work for the Bureau of Weights and Measures...
If I could have had my choice, a peppermint chocolate chip milkshake from chik-fil-a would have been my first pick...I also enjoy banana milkshakes!
I am a very forgiving person...(although it's hard to forget things sometimes, I tend to be able to move on pretty quickly)--
I'm with Becky, your day sounds more exhausting than my last few weeks culling my design studio! You are so darling to give such a gift to Michelle, and I, as the grandmother, love the reports!!
My mother always comments that "time is excellerated in the last days.." and it's the truth.
I had no feelings of injustice as a kid! Just lucky, I guess. My sister and I, Karen, shared a room and we decorated it with paper chains and art for every possible holiday! Those were good days for us.
I don't hold grudges at all. I make it a policy not to be offended, even when offense is intended! (I'm sure that really frustrates the offender!)
I agree with Shannon, you have the most entertaining blog! More, please.
You really are such a wonderful friend. I love this post! The dinosaurs, the muscles, the injustice. All of it so funny.
Sounds like another successful Wednesday for both you and michelle. They are so cute together. I love thinking they are becoming friends.
It's interesting you did this today because my day consisted of a wonderful Wednesday too. I had my friends two kids & my niece over here while mine were all at school. It's was crazy, but good.
I just think it is so nice of you to take Eva all day so Michelle can have some time to herself. I think your gift is much more priceless than anything that could be bought with money.
Oh yes, I definitely have problems with time flying by without my permission!
I absolutely loved that video of the girls playing. It was so funny!
I think it is great that you do this for Michelle!
Wonderful Wednesdays are still one of my favorite gift ideas ever- I am just so amazed at the brilliance of it.
Eva and Ashley are so cute. You are so funny, I can't imagine going from your kids back to two toddlers once a month. You are a wonder!
I'm with Hannah- I cannot get over what a ridiculously huge gift this is, but so crazy simple. I actually think this is one of the nicest gifts anyone with small kids could receive.
How great that they get along well enough to spend the entire day together.
ok i am laughing so hard when you rewatch the video look at ashley's "office" look when eva said she could cut her cake herself. It was at 3o seconds. It was kind of like Jim giving the camera the eye.
only at this age will two girls want to bigger than the other, when they are 16 it will the other way around.
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