Wednesday, July 01, 2009

You're Going to O.D. on Nostalgia

Contest--I'll send something to the first person who can name the movie my title comes from. (Little side note: For the longest time I thought the quote was, "You're going to O.D. on the style gel.")


During my stay in Michigan, Betsy brought out folders of notes I'd written to her during classes in high school (there were A LOT of them, no wonder I had a B average) and many letters I'd sent her while I was at BYU.


Reading those notes was kind of like looking at a car accident, I just couldn't look away. It was painful and amusing to read the high school notes because I had selectively forgotten some aspects of my character...namely the insecure, fat obsessed, boy crazy teenager parts. I even sounded like Betsy's stalker in some of the notes (good grief).


I don't remember any of that, and am trying to overlook those because they were from the early years, those painful 14-15 year old years of trying to find my place. Also horrifying to me was my use of the word your, instead of you're...oh the shame.


Some of the good aspects of reading the notes were their time-capsule qualities. I made reference to the TV shows we were watching back then (Moonlighting, 30 Something, The Cosby Show), the foods we were eating, the classes we were taking, family issues (my poor parents), weekend plans and so on. I also loved reading the humorous parts where I cracked myself up. I still do that, especially when I write letters to Betsy, so it was fun to see that over 20 years later we still share that part of our friendship.


I received a bunch of good mail while I was on my trip (it's so great to come home to good mail) and even received a couple letters during my trip. Claudia sent me one in Illinois and one in Michigan (much to Betsy's amazement).


Natasha sent me this cute "J" magnet last month right before I left. My fridge is covered in various "J" magnets, which I quite enjoy.


This is the card Claudia sent me while I was in Illinois. It was one of her patented, swirling text cards.


This is the letter she sent me while I was in Michigan. Betsy's amazement made it that much sweeter.



Last month Robyn totally surprised me by sending me 2 fabulous gift cards (just because) and the $10 bill I'd recently sent her in gratitude for taking care of all the Mother's Day stuff for our family gathering. I could not have been more surprised and delighted by these gifts and her nice note.


I came home from my trip to find this marvelous necklace from Lisa! She took my favorite photo from Women's Conference and turned it into a necklace for me, Michelle and Kristi. What a thoughtful thing to do, I love it!!


Jen M. sent me this really nice card while I was on my trip. I seriously think thoughtful cards that make reference to things I've written in a card or on my blog are my favorite kinds of good mail because they give me such an emotional lift. I'm sure we all think nice things about various people's blogs and have been impacted by our blog friends, but it's really a great gift when someone takes the time to tell that person.


I got this thank you card from Eva and just had to laugh at her giant "E".


Claudia sent me this fun envelope which included a letter and some magazine clippings. She has such a way with good mail.


Kim Sue sent me this nice note (sorry for the blurry photo). I always appreciate her kind words.



I also came home to this letter from Claudia (she's a prolific writer).


Melinda sent me a nice thank you note for some labels I'd recently sent her.


Laurie M. also has a way of writing such great cards; her thoughtfulness and sincerity are totally apparent and welcomed.


Natasha is so great to send me postcards from her many travels.


When I came over to pick up Eva and Lucas to go swimming last week, Michelle gave me this shirt. She'd been shopping for girl's camp and had gotten one for herself and had generously gotten one for me as well.


That brings me to today's good mail offering from Patsy. She sent this very festive 4th of July envelope with a note, JCWs coupon (woohoo) and an article about the traffic woes in Utah County. I'm living them, but don't get the paper so I hadn't read about them. Thanks Patsy!

**Did you recognize the movie quote?
Have you ever gotten mail on vacation?
Did write a lot of notes in high school?
Is it hard for you to read stuff you
wrote when you were a lot younger?**

17 comments:

jenn said...

I had to look it up- but google tells me it is from Pretty in Pink.

Love the quote.

Laurie M. said...

No! Didn't recognize the movie quote (I'm awful at that).

Never have got mail on vacation (come to think of it, I'm never on vacation long enough to receive mail).

Yes, wrote a lot of notes (would hate to see them).

It's hard to read it, embarrassing, but also very interesting. I know what you mean about it being like something you can't look away from. There's probably something therapeutic in it.

Loved this post.

Judy said...

You're gonna OD on style gel, Fiona!

Rock on 80s movies!

patsy said...

I cannot believe you got that letter today! I sent it yesterday- seriously- yesterday-amazing!!!

I HATE reading the things I wrote in my journals... I keep them hidden. It's horrible- truly. I want to throw them out, but won't.

BETSy kept ALL your notes? HOLY COW that's unbelievable! I love it.
How great to recieve such fantastic good mail, especially on vacation- I myself feel VERy priviledged to say I got my first ever letter from Claudia last week- It was such a joy & surprise!! I've been taking it with me & showing all the bloggers I know- so exciting

crystal said...

Pretty in Pink!!!! Pretty in Pink!!!!! One of my favorite movies EVAH!

Andie says it! To Iona! I think when she's trying her prom dress on....

jenny said...

How great to come home to so many wonderful things...your girls trip looked like so much fun. In case I don't check or get around to a computer. Happy early birthday!

Rebekah said...

when i went home last summer i went through my keepsake bin. the process made me very sad and very emotional. i looked back and saw how i desperately wished things would get better, how i kept trying, and kept hoping that things would work out for me somehow. while i was going through everything i felt like i was having a face to face interview with my old self, and i didn't really know what to say to myself, having lived twenty, ten, five years more than the old self i was looking at. pain.

crystal said...

Another one I love:
"Blane? (scathingly) His name is (sneer) Blane?"

Mike and I use that quote A LOT when we want to make fun of someone while around others so no one will know it. heeheeheehee

Kim Sue said...

amazing that she kept all your notes and I can only imagine how agonizing they could be at times...I can't imagine stepping back to hear myself at 14!

crystal said...

"What's this?! We don't have a candy machine in the boy's room!"

I use that one a lot, too, still to this day referring to my tampons as candy in my purse.

Amanda said...

I love all the Pretty in Pink quotes! That was one of my favorite movies..but I don't remember the nostalgia line.

I would cringe to read all the notes I wrote when I was younger!

michelle said...

I can't believe Betsy had all your notes, and filed to boot! That would be like a train wreck for me, luckily I wasn't too prolific...

I love that Claudia sent you good mail on your trip. I wanted to do that, but never followed through! You can count on Claudia.

I didn't even recognize that movie quote, sad.

Natasha said...

I can't believe Betsy has saved all that stuff. I have known my friend Melissa for 20+ years now and I wish I had saved some notes we had passed in school. Tasha and I used to pass notes in grad school all the time and I would probably laugh out loud if I read those too (or cry!). It would be intersting to see what was important to me at the time.

That is a whole lot of good mail - Yippee!!!! I love how Eva's "E" is so big. Kids are funny like that, how it's all about them.

becca said...

I love it! I LOVE that she saved the notes! I did not save notes from high school and it makes me sad. They are priceless. My Dad saves EVERYTHING, and one night when I was home from college I came across a bag of notes written between him and a high school girlfriend. I stayed up all night reading them and felt like I got to know my dad in High School (and no, it never occured to me that I should not have read them), I am so glad he kept them!

Bond Girl 007 said...

Come to think, I should have sent Betsy a note too! Patsy's comment made me smile, and that is good thing, since it is my word for the year, and I have catch myself not doing it sometimes! So thank you Patsy at your service. I love love all the notes....how fun to have them filed and waiting to be read. I am glad you had a great time at vacation and I must say I love Eva's E! classic.

Holly said...

Your friend Betsy has got it going on to keep a file of your old notes and letters! That's really cool. And organized. Which I'm not.

I feel the need to watch Pretty in Pink PRETTY soon. And maybe Sixteen Candles and The Breakfast Club too.

Anonymous said...

Love pretty in pink, own it! Will have to pull it out to watch some time. I also am a Breakfast club fan.