Tuesday, May 05, 2009

Roommate Weekend--Part 2

We really wanted to make it to Friday's opening class (9:00am) to hear Julie B. Beck speak, so that meant getting up early so all three of us would be ready in time.


We managed to do it and rewarded ourselves with diet Coke (for them) and mint brownies for breakfast.


Kristi and Michelle modeling their morning beverage of choice (they mock me so).


Early morning comedy.


Our fresh-faced self portrait before heading out for the day.


Kristi and I pulled the previous night's Cafe Rio bag out of the trash hoping to find her Women's Conference ID badge, but it wasn't there...ew.


We were so happy that we made it to campus in time to make it to the 9:00 class.


Kristi had to stand in line to get a replacement ID, so Michelle and I soaked up the lovely spring scenery. We were positively smitten with the beauty of the trees.


Sister Beck's talk was so great! I took 3 pages of notes and felt absolutely fired up and so thankful to have been there to hear her speak. I love the way she tells it like it is.


At one point during her talk, she told us to FIGHT, FIGHT against pornography, not to sit back and act like victims, because we are fighting a determined foe. It was a powerful moment.


As we were walking to our next class, we were admiring the jacket of this woman walking in front of us and ended up telling her. She started talking to us and told us she grew up in American Fork, then asked if I knew her mother (she said her name) and I exclaimed, "She's my visiting teaching supervisor, I just called her the other day!"


So we became instant friends and ended up walking and talking until it was time to part ways. I love how friendly everyone is at Women's Conference. You could go alone and still end up making friends and feeling like you were a part of something special.


We broke out our bags of trail mix (heavy on the m&ms) for some sustenance in-between classes. I don't like having to dodge the raisins, but this snack proved to be a surprisingly delightful treat to me. It's like I'm having a trail mix Renaissance of sorts.


We made it to the Smith Field House in time to get seats for a great class by Adrianne Gill and John Bytheway. Kristi had scouted out this class about digital communication and teens, but it ended up being applicable to parenthood in general. I ended up taking 4 pages of notes! I left there feeling more committed and optimistic about parenting; I'm so glad we went!


This is such a happy sight to see.


How do you like my candid-looking self-portrait? Would you have guessed I took this picture?


We were on time for Friday's 12:30 lunch gathering, but weren't really expecting to see anyone since we had run in to so many blogging friends the day before.


We called Collette to see if she wanted to join us for lunch (her office is in the Wilkinson Center) and were so glad she was free to spend an hour with us.


We were super delighted and surprised when cute Crystal came and sat down at our table! We were so excited to meet her. She lives nearby so I'm often on the lookout for her when I'm at Costco or Target, and can't believe we've never bumped into each other.


It was so great to finally meet her and experience her humor in real life. Meeting her was definitely a highlight for me!


Right after Crystal left us to go meet her friend, we had a happy reunion with Miss Blog Party 2008 herself Ryann (Remember when we met her at Women's Conference last year? ) and Patsy. I think we were rather squeal-like and loud, but it was fun catching up, it felt like a mini blog party but without any of the stress or expense.


We also got to meet blogging friend Shauna H. (from Florida). Is it any wonder we missed our 2:00 class?


Kristi demonstrated how far her skirt ripped last week. (Did you read that funny post of hers?)


We ended up shopping at the BYU Bookstore for awhile after that. I bought t-shirts for my kids, Kristi bought t-shirts for her whole family, and Michelle bought orange sticks at the candy counter.


I decided I like the regular brownies better than the mint brownies (though I tend to embrace all brownies).


Since we missed our 2:00 class, we ended up with some time to sit outside and soak in the beauty near the museum.


Of course while sitting there Kristi recognized a former sister missionary from Maryland and ended up totally making that girl's day with the kind words of advice (about adjusting back to normal life after a mission) she had for her. It was really something to see and hear, and reminded me what a strength nice words of encouragement can be for another person--I should be more generous with them.


We walked through the Walter Wicks exhibit (been there, done that) at the museum, had a bathroom break (woohoo no lines in there) and then laughed when Kristi laid down on this bench. We had done A LOT of walking and were pooped.


Kristi was recognized by another blogger when we got back to the Marriott Center. Kara and Kristi are both good friends to Mindy, but Kara was familiar with Michelle and I through our blogs as well.


At the closing session, L. Tom Perry spoke about misconceptions people around the world have about our church. It was eye opening to me to hear (there was a video clip) that many people still associate us with polygamy or think we're not Christian (what the?!).


After the last session, Amy S. came over and introduced herself to us. She knows us from our blogs and wanted to say "hi".


Our feet served us well over these two days. Mine ended up being totally black by the end of the day, and my left pinkie toe sustained an injury when the corner of a notebook we were looking at in the bookstore fell and hit it. How cruel to be hurt by something I enjoy so much.


I love this picture.


We gathered outside the Marriott Center at the end of day 2 and took some more pictures. I think this one of Michelle is great, I love it that she's got her bag from the bookstore in her hand as well.


We ended up getting to see Patsy, Megan and Ruthie again, along with Jeff's mom and her friend. There were little groups just like us all over the place because Women's Conference unites women in many ways.


At one point while we were talking, Patsy realized that Sharon is Jeff's mom and immediately gave her a hug. I'm not sure who she thought she was prior to that, but it was a funny and sweet moment.


We went to the Beehive Bazaar (a place with craft vendors) to wander and shop for awhile. I did a quick run through and then sat down in one of the comfy armchairs nearby. I ended up meeting one of the vendors and had an interesting conversation with her about creativity. Michelle and Kristi both bought some cool things, but I didn't think to take a picture of their purchases.


We were soooo ready for dinner at this point and went to Training Table for a tasty meal. As we were walking into the restaurant, the man who held the door for us said, "Elder Holland is in there." Kristi thought it was so funny that the man would say that, and that he assumed we'd know who Elder Holland is. But of course, we know who he is, and got a kick out of Kristi being a bit star struck to see him there.


We were refueled and ready for our stop at Joann's to buy fabric for the bags Kristi was going to teach us to make. I'm not super keen on sewing or fabric stores, so I didn't view our stop there as momentous, but Kristi did and we ended up taking some self-portraits outside the store. I think they're funny, so I'm very glad we did.


I selected my 3 fabrics quickly, though I was torn between getting something super predictable (red and black) or going for something fun and different. I know myself well enough to know that my choices are predictable for a reason (duh, I love those colors) so I shouldn't fight it.


There were a lot of great (and many not so great) fabric choices, and it was fun to consider the possibilities.


We finally made it home around 9:30 and immediately put on our jammies and cracked open the mint brownies.


Then we played SingStar until we were too tired to do anything but sleep. It had been a perfect day!

**Do you drink diet Coke for breakfast?
Do you enjoy Sister Beck?
Are you smitten with blossoming trees?
Do you talk to strangers?
Are you generous with words of encouragement?
Do you like fabric stores?
Do you ever try to resist the things you like?**

31 comments:

Rebekah said...

i admire Sister Beck so much. she always inspires and motivates me to live my life like a daughter of God should.

annalisa said...

Has it really been a year since last Women's Conference? That's crazy. You girls always look like you have so much fun together. I'm glad Kristi could come again to play with Michelle and you.

becca said...

Holy Cow! What a weekend!! I just caught up with everything you girls did! Are you so exhausted?!

You got some fantastic pictures...it looks like you are all having so much fun!

j said...

aaahhh!! i kept commenting in my head along the way and now i'm afraid i'm going to forget...

first- i LOVE that sweater, jill- cute color and i like the style!!! and you guys crack me up. how i wish to be a fly on the wall when you're together!!!


diet coke for breakfast- is it bad that i secretly long for those days to come back SOON?!?!? i'm sure with a newborn, i'll revert. :) but mint brownies?!?! one- i've never had one and two- i must find them. i have been dreaming of them. brownies in general. and now i'm sure to dream of trail mix. i love that you're having a trail mix renaissance. :)

i have that black paisley fabric in a swatch in my house right now!!! i'm not SUCH a fan of fabric stores- but only b/c i cannot sew. another thing on my list of things to learn some day. why did god smite me with a dearth of domestic skill?

i am constantly resisting things i like. or trying. usually i give in....

i am liking this women's conference thing. i had no idea about it until last year, i think. i may need to go to one sometime. i like that you can go and learn so much and i definitely like everyone together.

ahhh....memory failing. but i love these posts!!!

crystal said...

* Do you SEE how giddy I am in that photo? Positively glowing! There need to be more blogger moments like that.

* "I tend to embrace all brownies." A classic Jill-ism. (me too!)

* Having met me, you can imagine that yes--I talk to strangers. To a fault. My husband rolls his eyes whenever we are stuck in a line somewhere because he knows by the time we leave, I'll know the life stories of the person in front of me and the person in back of me.

I'm a talker.

* Upon reflecting on your question, I think yes, I am generous with words of encouragement. I think because I know how much such words mean to me.

WHAT A KILLER POST!!!
See ya at Target...keep your eyes peeled...It's bound to happen sooner or later.

shannon said...

Gese, Louise!--No wonder you were overwhelmed with all of the weekend blogging update! I don't know how you managed to capture it all!--

Love how you dodge the raisins!

I can just feel the joy exuding from everyone's smiles!--I don't think it gets much better than this!

Lucky girl!

shannon said...

P.S.--I totally talk to strangers and love that you gave that woman a compliment on her jacket...everyone needs a boost...and it's especially nice to hear when it comes from a random source!

I sometimes drink diet coke for breakfast (although I always feel like poop afterward)

I must admit that I do love fabric stores (I don't even sew--go figure!)

Love Julie Beck!--

You bet I'm smitten by blossoming trees!--I feel like I'm in a constant state of oogling the whole spring season...

michelle said...

Ahhhhh. This was a wonderful post, it was like re-living a perfect day!

Just to clarify, I don't normally drink diet Coke for breakfast! But it was a good one.

I love Sister Beck. Every time she speaks I feel like she gets me to the core. I am so glad we made the effort to get there in time for her most inspiring talk.

Oh, and that picture of me is perfect! Now that's the kind of photo I can get behind!

I never used to talk to strangers. Ever. In fact, I would always be embarrassed by my mom talking to people in stores. Now I embarrass my kids!

On words of encouragement. OUCH. I really struggle with this. A lot. I know I need to improve.

I absolutely love fabric stores. So many possibilities...

I don't think I ever try to resist the things I like. Wait, that's not true. Sometimes I think I should try not to have EVERYTHING in a damask print. And it probably would be a good thing if I shyed away from the m&ms sometimes.

Lauralee said...

so glad you made it to sis beck's talk.. that fight message was memorable.. my sister asked me later.. so what are you going to do- to fight? good question.. monitoring my kids computer time is #1-

love the blossoming trees, luke just noticed the one in our front yard today.. it was cute

yes, I talk to strangers- probably too often.

words of encouragement? I try to be..

love fabric stores..

yes.. I try to resist.. not super good at it..

Kim Sue said...

wow! another fabulous day and I am enjoying feeling like I am there enjoying all that female bonding.

Diet Coke and Brownies has to be about as perfect a breakfast as there can be!

Amie said...

I really have nothing to add.... it still looks like a great weekend!

Liz said...

I loved this recap too!

I am not a coke drinker.

I loved Sister Beck's talk! Between classes I was sitting next to a woman who was telling me how much she's enjoyed Sis. Beck and how she has enjoyed seeing a growth and increase in Sis Beck in the last few years. I was so interested to learn how much preparation she put into researching and planning for this talk. I thought it was a fabulous talk, and especially the part about fight against pornagraphy. It was such an emotional moment.

I do talk to strangers! :)

I am trying to be better about being generous with words of encouragement. There is a great post about this on a primary blog I read... http://sofiasprimaryideas.blogspot.com/2009/04/praise-lord-praise-children-language.html This gal has such fabulous ideas and I love that she is so willing to share.

I do like fabric stores. But I don't go in them very often anymore.

Michelle said...

Diet Coke with breakfast...it's the way I start the day! It is so fun to read about women's conference - I love trying to decipher your notes in the photos. What a fabulous weekend! And don't even get me started on fabric stores...

Charlotte said...

That's incredible you saw so many blogger friends! I love it that you can feel that you know someone through their blog without ever having met them. That definitely sounds like a perfect day!

Anonymous said...

Diet coke with b-fast? I can see myself doing that on vacation...I like mint brownies, but prefer them straight up chocolate.

I talk to strangers, yes. It embarrasses Linc.

I want to be generous with words of encouragement!

Love fabric stores even though they overwhelm me.

I resist the things I like every day. It sucks- but hopefully will be worth it!

All three of you look smashing in these pictures!

Anonymous said...

Oh- and I am jealous you met Crystal...

Susan said...

Wow! What a fun day! I'm totally jealous.

I sometimes have Coke Zero (WAY better than diet Coke....) when my friend Linda is in town.

I talk to strangers everyday! Some are VERY strange, I must say.

I love Sister Beck along with you.

I wish to be more generous with words of encouragement. It will be a new goal.

I love fabric stores and seldom go to them anymore. I used to be a major hoarder of fabrics!

I only resist things I like when I am dieting. Well,if you don't count sleep....

brooke said...

Holy crap that was a great post--I feel like I was there with you girls. The brownies (mint and plain) look so good. I'm with you on trail mix--raisens should not ever be in there-or in any dessert for that matter. This post made me want to grab my sister and friends and head to women's conf.

Laurie said...

I think you look smashing in your blue outfit. I am very impressed that you continue to resist diet Coke. It sounds like a delicious way to start the day.

I do enjoy Sis Beck. If you feel the need to share her thoughts or parenting tips you got while at the conference during your Sunday Thoughts from time to time, I will be thrilled.

I do try to resist my style and break out a bit, but like you I realize, why not stick with what I'm comfortable with?

Janae said...

What a great post. I have enjoyed getting to read all the different blogs out there posting about women's conference...i can't believe i've never been:(
I love all of your photos, really great you can tell how much fun you guys had!
d.c. for breakfast...only on hard days;)

kelly said...

Jill you have great handwritting..I can see why you love sending good mail!! The size of your note book..awesome! What a fun weekend you had...good times with GREAT friends, really does it get any better than that!! (ok, a weekend w/ family)

Esther said...

Love Michelle's hair in these pictures. Nice curls girlfriend!

Jessica said...

This is all making me miss Utah foods myself -- mmmmmm, Training Table fries....

patsy said...

Training table sounds so, so good right now!

I love Sister BEck! Her talk was one of my favorites & I am hoping they will rebroadcast it on KBYU. I also love these spring blossoms- this year (with no east winds) has been particularly beautiful in my town. I have a real weekness for fabric stores, but I often get so overwhelmed- I buy nothing... I feel committed to fabric & bad if I don't use it???

sometimes I DO resist things I like because I don't put colors/things together well. It's a talent I wish I had- so I question my ability to even "know" what I like? I get home & think--- what? that doesn't look good together?? Michelle- she's got it goin' in that department!

patsy said...

diet coke for breakfast...
:)

Barb said...

What a great time. I am so sad that women's conference wasn't in the cards for me this year. I enjoyed last year so much. I must minimally see if I can watch the Marriot Center talks online.

Bond Girl 007 said...

oh MISSY just about now, I am dying for that training table dinner with you guys...looked soooo fun, glad to see that you enjoyed it and took so many notes. I am giddy to hear about those. I love michelle's hair looks so light and pretty...wow.. ..I am turning into a brunett these years...maybe I should hop over and go see jace.

fun fun fun. love the shoes too!

Holly said...

Another FAB day of friends, fun, food and fabric. Perfect!

So glad y'all had that time together. Did you get a chance to make your tote bag yet? I'd LOVE it if you'd pass on the directions--you know whenever you have buckets of free time. :)

Ann On and On... said...

Another wonderful post. I am off to read more..... but I am craving mint brownies for some reason?

everything pink! said...

oh those mint brownies are so awesome. they were the 4th partner in the weekend.

i love talking to strangers but I never seem to meet anyone because I make everyone I see be my new best friend

i am still amazed at our fabric store breeze through.

Amanda said...

I do enjoy a good DC for breakfast, lunch or dinner. Any time of day works for me.

I love Sister Beck. Her straightforwardness is refreshing and empowering.

I didn't talk to strangers until I moved to CT and now I do all the time. I'm turning into my mothers.

I try to be generous with words of encouragement. I think positive praise is so important.

Love fabric stores.

Love your weekend. It seems like such soul food.