
I went visiting teaching by myself this morning because my partner is too busy to go this week (though she is the reason we were going so late in the first place) and I had one of those visits that make you feel so glad you went, yet totally helpless at the same time. I left in tears (of sympathy) and felt overwhelmed for this woman. Does anyone know a good lawyer who will work for free?

I called in my order to Cafe Rio and cracked up at this latest version of my name. The order taker (English is her 2nd language) is the same one who heard "Joel" not too long ago, but "Jilo" was a first! I must not be able to pronounce my own name.

Wednesday is now my bread making day. I can do it on other days, but since the creation of my
"Brain Box", this task has been assigned to Wednesdays then as needed--I no longer buy white bread.
I am listening to the book "Outliers" and think it is fascinating. I just started it yesterday, but am already 6 hours in. It's amazing how that time adds up when I'm working at the same time. I finished listening to "Boys Adrift" last week and must say it left my head spinning and my heart full of fear for the future; it's definitely worth a listen.

Randy's brother's family is coming to visit next week during their spring break (a rare treat) so I am working on some of the bigger clean-out projects that usually get ignored. I like having the extra push to get these things done, yet feel overwhelmed while doing the tasks.
You would understand this is you saw our hall closet in real life. No matter how many times I have weeded things out and reorganized, there's just no way to survive the force we call Whitney! She has a way of tucking and stuffing things as she "cleans" that leaves us speechless and amazed. It's a good thing I usually tackle this project while she's at school otherwise there would be yelling and tears.

When she saw the finished closet this afternoon she said, "I love what you've done with the closet!" So she is capable of recognizing and appreciating the clean, she just hasn't gotten the application of the concept down yet.

These blankets are causing me a lot of grief. They were gifts from Randy's grandmother, but they are (dare I say it?) u-g-l-y! The only use they ever get is when Landon builds a fort and needs every possible blanket in the house. I would love to give them to D.I. and be rid of them once and for all, but that seems harsh. I should probably get another big bin so I can store them in the garage right? Please help!

Landon woke up totally fine this morning, so he went back to school and is at his first soccer practice of the season right now. I saw him lying on his bed this afternoon and was all happy to find him reading, but when I came in to take a picture this is what I found.

Whitney's cute friend Payton came home from school with her today and they are totally adorable together (he's the one who gave her the Lemur webkin). I love it that she has several really good friends, and love it that both Madison and Payton are sweet, well-behaved kids from nice families. Who knew that would be so hard to come by?
**Ever have one of those VT appointments?
Can you believe "Jilo?"
Can you believe that hall closet?
What would you do with the afghans?**
Can you believe "Jilo?"
Can you believe that hall closet?
What would you do with the afghans?**
Comment Window Tidbit: I have grown another crater on my forehead. What is up with the universe? I have resisted attacking, so I'm still able to cover it with make-up, but it feels like I'm sprouting a horn. Good Hell!

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I would save the afghans for the forts, but I'm pretty sure the right answer is to give them to DI!
I'm listening to Outliers as well. I'm on disc 5 I think. Totally fascinating! It's really got me thinking about holding my soon to be 5 year old back from Kindergarden for another year so that she's not always the youngest in class. I was the youngest in class by far and I gotta say: no likey!
Keep one afghan and give the rest away! Way to go on the closet!
What a productive day you had. I just have to tell you that I am very giddy with the fact that a new CAFE RIO location will be opening up down the street from where I work. Now, I too will have CAFE Rio adventures.
Can't wait...maybe Claudia and i will have lunch there from time to time.
I'm so sorry about the crater!
I have a similar afghan problem. I want to get rid of them - because of the hideous factor by they were made by a cute grandma and even cuter grandpa...so no advice there.
Love the closet...I live with 3 Whitneys - is their any hope for me being organized?
Those are pretty hideous afghans, but worth keeping around for forts. I always hate it when the kids drag clean, good blankets out of the linen closet for that purpose.
I love cleaning out kids' closets when they are not home. You can throw away so many things that they otherwise would never part with. I'm getting a lot of vicarious pleasure just looking at the photo of the cleaned-out closet.
Perhaps the Cafe Rio employee thinks you look like J-Lo and didn't know how to spell the name. Were you wearing large hoop earrings at the time? :)
Get rid of the afghans--you will be so glad you did! :)
I am super-impressed with your hall closet and have a couple spaces like that around the house that I need to tackle.
I'm glad you did your VT...get in touch with the RS Pres. and the Bishop and they might be able to take care of the lawyer thing.
Love this line: "...sweet, well-behaved kids from nice families. Who knew that would be so hard to come by?" Amen! {I've been struggling to know what to do about our neighbor kids who apparently have no parents and always ring the doorbell and want my kids to come outside and play---we live on the corner and these kids play in the street! I want to be kind but...anyway, long story so I guess I should blog about it instead of leave an insanely long comment!} :)
You really were productive! The closet looks fantastic. I also have a stasher child (or 4), and it drives me berserk. I've told this story before, but once Avery put a baggie of carrots from her lunch box in between some towels in our basement bathroom, which was much more effort than actually throwing them away. I don't get it!
It made me sad to hear of your leaving your VT appointment in tears. Sometimes it's a heavy calling, and that can be unexpected. I hope she's able to get some help.
I don't know what to say about the afghans. I empathize with wanting to rid yourself of their ugliness, but at the same time would feel grandma guilt. Good luck!
whoa there jilo! you are the productivity QUEEN! wow.
that vt appt would make me cry, i think. i agree with the idea of going to the rs pres and the bishop- they should be able to help hook her up. wow.
oh, afghans. it depends on how attached you are. i have to hold onto some things due to shane's attachment to them....others i have tossed.
can you believe i'm actually leaving a comment? my house is quiet and relatively clean at 8:45pm and shane went to sears. waahoo!
Dear Jilo,
I returned home after being out the entire day & the first thing I saw was your card on my kitchen desk. Your receptiveness to the Spirit astounds me. Thank you so very, very (very) much.
More later.
-crystal
Yes, I've had one of those VT appointments. Sad.
That closet reminds me of two bedrooms in my house. Kids can be such pack rats. It is hard for me to get up the energy it takes to get them cleaned and organized again and again. Because we all know that when we ask them to clean and organize, they stuff things under beds, and don't throw anything away.
I think I'd get a container to put the afghans in. That way you aren't throwing them away, but they are stored out of sight.
Those kinds of VT visits are definitely hard to take. What do we do when we have stewardship over someone with big problems that we can do very little about? Just love and support her, I guess.
I love that you don't buy white bread anymore! You've become a bread baker! I wish I could stop buying bread, but my picky children won't completely make the switch.
Your hall closet makeover is seriously impressive. I have had that task on my list of things to do for a couple of months now...
I would stow the afghans in the garage. But I seem to have difficulty getting rid of stuff.
I always feel so grateful when my children have good friends! I totally agree with your "who knew that would be so hard to come by?" comment.
I am in your same shoes with the crater but mine is on my chin! I am too old for this!
I have been to a VT appointment like yours and it makes me feel so sad and what do you do? I don't know a free lawyer. I wish I did.
Jilo is pretty darn funny. Now you have to go back to see what she comes up with next.
I am loving your hall closet! It makes me happy to see that and encourages me to get moving on mine.
We have the same problem. We have a ton of blankets that were made for us by great aunts, aunts twice removed and so on and I feel bad getting rid of them since they took the time to make them for us. I have put a lot of mine in space saver bags and then sucked out the air so they are really compact. I bought the bags at Costco. It is the best price I have found.
Jilio, oh dear Jilio. At least it was more feminine than Joel. :)
Your closet transformation was outstanding!! WOWzers what a difference. It's good that Whitney appreciates the organizing and clean-outs, even if she can't follow through completely.
I'd say keep the lesser of the most offensive afghans for a keepsake and give the others away. Maybe take a picture of them to remember them by. ;) I'm really trying to follow that mantra of keep what you use, love or what makes you happy. It's still hard though.
I'm glad you went VT, even though you had to go by yourself. I'm sure your visit was a blessing to that woman!
I just have to comment. I have the same problem with blankets and afghans. What worked for me was...
space bags. I had never tried them.
They work great for things like that. They take up little room in small closets like mine. I'm hooked!
have a great day.
Tracy
Your crater comment makes me laugh! I have an attack on my chin right now...and I am 39 (too old for this surely?)
I understand the anxiety over the thorw blankets. I have a MIL that knits & quilts and I have more than I want or need and I feel so much guilt over the desire to be rid of them. (She made me quilt of polyester fabric...blech! the 70's kind!)
Be brave and go donate them to a retirement home perhaps? Maybe people of that generation will get a lot of enjoyment & use out of them. I am not sure saving them is worth it (they could rot, etc. or be even more dreadfully uglier with time)
Keep your "favorite" and give the rest of the afghans away.
Wish I had a closet that looked like that- I'm undertaking a huge upheaval and switching of spaces in between dance competitions and band concerts... why do I do that to myself?!!
I have a cousin who is a lawyer, she doesn't handle family law, but I contacted her to see if she could give some advice as to who is good, who can help with the cost and what not...
E-mail me
charity.manwaring@gmail.com
Charity
Kim's elderly patients are forever making us afghans. I cannot bring myself to throw them out but on occasion she does a good cleaning out, relieving me of any guilt.
Can they go to some sort of humanitarian aid project? Or could you stack them on top of each other, tack the edges, then put them all in a duvet cover, making one super, awesome blanket for winter? I think space saver bags might be the way to go.
I always feel like I should become a lawyer just because it's so useful in moments of crisis.
I can't believe you don't buy white bread anymore! Dude, it wasn't that long ago that you were struggling to see yourself as a baker!
That hall closest transformation is the best. You are seriously an amazing cleaner.
Did Randy's grandmother make the afghans for him? If so, that alone makes me think you should keep them. Maybe even have them professionally saved if you aren't wanting to use them. If she didn't make them... well, Landon likes them. lol
Maybe you should enroll in another organization class, but this time, take Whitney. She'll either view it as a lesson and possibly even enjoy it, or as punishment to be later used as incentive for keeping things straight lest she be put through it again. ;)
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